Tantra and BDSM – Tantric Fitness, Brad Amberheart
Intended to love, connect and be present, any personal interaction can be a tantric experience. That includes being whipped and fucked against a tree ;). In this video, Tantra Coach @amberhearbrad and I openly discuss our shared intention to support and be there for each other as we connect through kink games. Once we connect like this, it’s easier to become doggedly focused on your partner. So much so that you can get into a meditation-like state of mind. If you’re a sub, it’s called a “subspace”. If you are a Dom, it is called “Dom space”.
It is simply meditation, with your partner as your sole focus of attention. This state of mind can produce a runner-like sense of peace and relaxation and can last for hours. If a conscious spiritual connection isn’t what you’re looking for in a BDSM situation, you can also just focus on the sensations you’re experiencing and soak in the pleasure, warmth and sensuality of the scene – getting high on your arousal and arousal. If there’s an element of BDSM gameplay that you’ve never tried, but think would be interesting, give it a try.
From bondage, to impact play, to cock pumping and nipple play, there’s something for everyone and it’s a lot easier to learn and share with partners than it sounds. There’s an excellent book called SM 101 by Jay Wiseman that covers a lot of the basics of the most common ways to play BDSM. No matter your age, your sexual tastes will always be evolving and changing. Be open to new excitements and preferences, enjoy the sexual adventures they inspire.