Receiving – Tantric Fitness, Santino Cruz
For many of us, a big challenge in the bedroom is asking for what we want and allowing our partners to give it to us without expecting us to reciprocate. Most people are more turned on by seeing their partner’s arousal than being seen on their own. This is hammered into us from our earliest years… it’s better to give than to receive. Well, I digress, as there are give AND take elements to both roles. By receiving, you are giving yourself the powerful gift of self-love and helping your giver feel sexy, savvy, and confident.
This leads to greater chemistry as desires are fulfilled, pleasure is experienced, and confidence builds. When partners ask for what they want, it helps each other learn about preferences and desires. evolve instead of staying the same all the time. Try this with partners. Give each other a block of time (10-15 minutes) where each can ask for what they want and actually receive it. Be creative, don’t just stick with the obvious routine you always do, broaden your definition of intimacy. You’ll be amazed at what you’ll learn about your partner, and you’ll be inspired to add more variety to your playtime. A big naked hug and thanks to @santinox for creating this with me.
